~~ 对的人 The Right One... ~~

When a Girl meets a Boy..

When a Man meets a Women..

How do we know this is the right one ?

Well let's get realistic.. We all agrees that the best time of love life is during the initial stage of relationship... with so much uncertainties, sweet surprises and the feeling of being woo and wooed.. makes your adrenaline rushed to the highest point!

As years goes by.. love has developed into a responsibility.. but at this point of time.. when there is responsibility and everything has become a routine, does love still exist ? And is this person still THE ONE to spend the rest of your life with ?

I particularly like a song by 戴爱玲 - 对的人. The chorus is as follows :

....
爱虽然很美妙
却不能为了寂寞
又陷了泥沼

爱要耐心等待
仔细寻找
感觉很重要
宁可空白了手
等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在这个世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现在眼角
....

i had a Catholic girlfriend who is now 31 yrs old.. she's been wanting to have a Catholic boyfriend believing that the relationship will work out with having the same belief..and the guy is in his late 40s..yes age shld not be a barrier to relationship but the issue is.. whether she's hastily getting into a relationship just because she's feels that age is catching up or so happens that a Catholic happens to pops by.. My advise to her just as what the song has reflected : One will ultimately meet the right one with patience waiting ...